I love the fact that my children are honest, just maybe sometimes not soooo honest!!!
Here’s today’s little gem! I hope it makes you chuckle…
I am now a trusty Weight Watchers member!
So here we have tonight’s instalment of Kidlet Captions!
This is a corker (even if I do say it myself!!!)
Don’t forget to send me your funny captions- please share with someone who has a good sense of humour!!
We’ve all been there I’m sure, we’ve always had that one little poppet who just knows how to press those buttons.
Even the best, most outstanding teachers amoungst us, will at some point had moments of self doubt! Fear not… Here are some great tips to help restore calm and order, and remove those barriers to poor behaviour.
Always remember… There is usually a reason behind the poor behaviour. Our job is to unpick, and find solutions and strategies to help each child achieve their best.
- Every day is a fresh start- Always Meet and greet at the door – the best early intervention in behaviour management is at the door. Smile, show you care!
- Relationship build- this is the biggest tool in the tool box! We need to build trust, and mutual respect. Although at times it may be tough, you need to show you care, and that you are there. You could potentially be the only person this child can fully trust. You may be the only constant in this child’s life.
- Make sure you catch your little one doing the right thing – ensure you give the praise that this deserves- be careful not to use insincere praise, it’s sometimes easy to catch children doing the wrong thing so develop the ability to catch those more challenging pickles doing the right thing is invaluable.
- Model good behaviour- use your school behaviour policy rigorously and ensure you follow through any sanctions. Be fair but firm- remembering all the time that it is the behaviour that you dislike and not the child
- Ensure you inform parents of positive behaviour rather than just negative. You need to be transparent but ensure you have parents on side to work together.
- Find common ground, what do they love doing? Tap into this- if they love Lego (for example) use this as your carrot. Bring in lego comics from home “I saw this- and thought of you!” Show you really care about them and want them to achieve
- Talk- communication is so so important. Use comic strips to work out where the outcome could have been different. Encourage children to recognise how their behaviour affected the situation. If appropriate keep a Log of anti-incident, incident, post incident. Is there a pattern?
- Encourage children to reflect on their feelings as colours, use mirrors to look at themselves, show pictures of emotions to help them recognise how they are feeling.
- Never alienate this child, create an ethos in your learning space where ALL children are valued- work together to help
- Talk to other colleagues- a problem shared is a problem halved as they say. Be careful not to “give the dog a bad name” but download on critical friends who you respect and value and ask for their help and support.
Everyday is a new day- “A new beginning always allows us to wipe the slate clean”
I found this awesome quote from Fred Rogers whilst surfing around the net this morning! (Cup of coffee in hand- my favourite way to spend a lazy Sunday morn!)
Too often some practitioners will ask… “But what are they learning- they look like they are just playing!!”
Hands up if you’ve ever experienced this?
I tend to get my ikea fold out soap box out, and explain that although they are “just” passing a ball to each other, two months ago that little 4 year old there used to spend the whole time hurting other children because he/she hadn’t learnt YET how to use their words to convey feeling, that most of their time was spent being changed by a grown up because they hadn’t yet developed an understanding of personal care. That two months ago they wouldn’t have been able to catch the ball yet with two hands, because their hand to eye co-ordination wasn’t developed enough.
I then put away my fold out ikea soap box, and disappear in a puff of smoke to the thick of my learning environment to watch children at play, and extend their learning!!!
Following my last post… This needs no further explanation!
I am a definite puddle parent, my children at school know if its raining more often than not we’ll grab our wellies and waterproofs and head on out!
Last friday it was absolutely tipping it down, we donned our wellies and waterproofs and spent a delightful afternoon splashing in puddles and hunting for snails and slugs!
We had a few minor incidents, one of which consisted of me dropping my iPad in a puddle, but apart from that all was grand!!
I didn’t see one littley with a sad face, what I did see though was big huge smiles, giggles, whoops to be free of the stuffy classroom! Children jumping, chasing, hoping, running, discovering, chatting, squealing with delight!
So…. Are you a puddle parent? Or do puddles get you in a muddle? Would love to hear below!
Give a five year old an eye pad- and sit back and watch creative genius at work!
“Look Mrs P… I’ve made a rainbow” came the cry!
We’ve no idea how she did it, but one little poppety took this amazing picture with our class Ipad!
I sense a career in photography!!